What should I do about my big, gross labia?

I have a really big labia. My labia majora is just too loose and it doesn't even cover my privates. My camel toe is asymmetrical.





My labia minora are really big and flappy. It looks disgusting. They look like two elephant ears sewn together.





I know that the only way to change it is probably surgery, so I guess I'm asking if you guys think it's gross. Will people be grossed out by this? I just think that it makes me look old and dirty.

What should I do about my big, gross labia?
HaHa! Dont worry about them girl, mine are too, but my boyfriend loves them!! They dont cause any problems, except maybe getting caught when doing the business, but a bit of KY sorts that out.!! Trust me,it could be worse!!! Men love them.
Reply:I happen to find your trait particularly exciting in women - I appreciate it very much. Perhaps this is not useful information for your particular life, but maybe move on to a partner that can appreciate your qualities and individuality?
Reply:Just leave it be Joanna. That would suck if there were complications in surgery and you lost feeling down there or something. Be yourself, let it hang and flap around, and i'm quite sure your mate will accept you for who you are.
Reply:Well I say that if it is gonna continue to drive down your self esteem and it is that bothersome than go for it. Do realize though that with every surgery there is a risk. I can understand with something like this it is different than just wanting bigger boobs. Do all the research on all the prons and cons of it before you make any decisions. Talk to a good plastic surgeon. I know if I had that problem and could afford it I would do it.
Reply:if peeps don't like u 4 u....screw them.....if ur ok w/ urself it's all good.....cause someday someone will luv everything about ya....good luck w/ whatever u choice is
Reply:Do what you want. I wouldn't if I were you though, because surgery screw ups happen way too often to feel safe about. Just try to accept yourself for who you are, enjoy your body while you're young.